Usha seems like a typical Indian who believes her marriage will be saved by having more kids. In her case though the fact that she needs a 4th one to fend off Erika says a lot.
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Ah white people. Went out for drinks and dinner with pretty much all white folks. Really nice people. I like them (heck part of reason I changed jobs!). But. Slowly the topic of current times came along. Everyone’s liberal so not like politics is taboo. One after another each white person says the same thing – they hate everything right now but unable to do anything. They feel like they “can’t” do anything at all. I didn’t want to address directly so I gave them examples about Indian protests and French protests – they agreed that Americans must learn from French – but all of them simply looked down and basically said but I can’t really do anything and nothing they can do will change anything. 10 minutes later they were all planning an offsite in Arkansas to meet a customer to which I was like yeah no thanks I don’t want to get killed. They didn’t get it. They really do not get it.
There is a sense of escape I feel in Seattle being far away from dc. The negative aura of the current occupant of White House spreads far and wide and engulfs everything and everyone 100 miles around. Here it’s nice to see Fuck ICE boards pasted on windows and feel you might somehow still be safe.
Oh Hi Seattle! Has been a while. And what’s this? Sun in January? How come? What is going on?
Looks like the next weekend might be ultra cold along with a potential for historic snowstorm. I hope neither happens but if I had to choose I will take biting cold over snow. A few inches is fine but anything more than 6-7” basically means the doggy walks are going to be treacherous for next few weeks until the snow melts and that takes its own sweet time.
Just in the last decade itself it’s now become so that not having health insurance in India is basically screwing yourself completely. I hope it never reaches the abysmal situation of USA but feels like going in that direction.
Auroras are becoming so common they are boring now. Now we just want to see the real thing way up north at some pt.
I am finding it so weird that the rest of the world has absolutely no balls whatsoever to stand against the bully. Like none. No wonder the bully is feeling more and more empowered. Seriously is this where we are now?
I have been using Projection Lab over last few weeks to simulate financial futures. There are few tools like this that focus only on retirement simulation with a lot of bells and whistles that are better than your traditional ones that you find in any financial tools. For starters everything in Projection Lab is manual to the T – so it takes some time to actually input your data with precision. But it’s a useful and necessary task. Next, after you create your retirement plan you can run simulations to see how well you’d do. You can also see when might you achieve financial independence, and when might you FATFire (which is basically saying, you can spend lavishly in retirement). You can also run your simulations against specific time periods – for example I ran my simulations against Great Depression years, the 1980s, the dot-com bubble and financial crisis era to figure out whether our plan can actually sustain. It’s interesting to see variables change over different eras. For example, in Great Depression era the tool said I could not retire until 70 (thankfully though I could is a miracle). I am still exploring this tool and paid for a month subscription. I don’t think I am gonna keep doing this monthly to invest in a yearly membership, but a month long membership is enough to give some directionality. All in all, we are doing OK, and that is about the best outcome I could take out of it.
That said, I am also slightly dubious of historical trends as calculations. The USA is in unprecedented territory right now, not just fiscally but also politically and influence. There is absolutely no telling how next few years will turn out and whether everything will collapse under its own weight. And unfortunately there is no way to simulate that – so while we feel ok about where we are, knowing where the country is headed in an exponentially uncharted territory basically makes us feel inadequately prepared. Time will tell though.
Sigh. The rower deal fell through. The seller was nice and invited me come to their house to check the rower out before finalizing sale. They lived in Burke which is like booneylands of fairfax county. Drive there and see a Trump 2024 sign outside their SFH window. I nope the fuck out of there – make some excuse and call off the sale, and block the seller. They were very nice over the whole interaction though prior to this, and I don’t have a reason to believe they would have done anything bad, but I just don’t have it in me anymore to engage with Trumpkins even in good faith.