Last year before our Spain trip I got this convertible day pant that was comfy as heck. I used it throughout Spain and kept telling my wife how well they fit me and – and ability to convert it into a nice evening pant from shorts was a killer! For our spring break this year I took it out again for packing and it was then my eyes saw it. I confirmed it again in two different places and for sure it was true – I had been hugging a woman’s convertible pant for whole of Spain trip. A never checked coz she was like you love it, keep it! And after we came back, once it was in wash and out I have not take it out again. So yeah, the day pant that I absolutely love(d) is actually a women’s pant. I am having all sorts of questions about myself today.

Last night we went to a nice Mexican place. Total bill was almost 140 bucks for 3 of us and with a 20% tip of 28 bucks came to 168$. We were in and out in 90 minutes, and our server spent perhaps at best 10 minutes with us – he got us water, took our order, got us food and then check. That’s it. 28 bucks for 10 mins of actual table work is sweet as heck deal. While I don’t mind giving the tip, it really is a scam alright.

Around midnightish woke up a to loud boom and light that shook the house. Assumed it was thunder and lightning and went back to sleep after a bit. Now all of nova Reddit is asking the same qn – what was it. I mean thunder lightning sure, but it was loud and bright enough that most of the area felt it! The house literally shook.

Quite a few old folks in our community have put up “VOTE NO ON APR 21” against the Virginia vote for changing our congressional maps to give democrats more seats. I know them. Always had my doubts about their inclination and now they confirmed it. Fucking Nazi people – I hope they get a heart attack and no one is around to help them.

Rewatching Kim’s Convenience with our teen we can see now the cast’s problem with the series as it went on. The characters of umma and appa go from being lovable silly characters to seemingly innocently mean parents exhibiting every crass immigrant stereotype there is (like really? Dumpster shopping? Jesus). for most part Shannon is treated as the princess who gets what she wants basically from her majority immigrant / colored folks. It’s still funny no doubt to see, but gosh the problems become apparent so much in later half of 4th season when it really starts going off the rails in stereotype.

After a trial of 4 weeks my teen has officially joined the gym with me. She is enjoying it a lot and thanks to her I now have some new found enthusiasm of finishing my workouts. Because of her swim schedule I would often leave the finishers coz I had to drive to pick her up – now that we hand to change schedule to accommodate her I can finish my prescribed workout. Hopefully this habit stays with her – how I wish someone had made me go to gym at her age 😑

Given the capitalist nature of this country, all it would take is the top 10 richest people here to put the government back in its place. Really that’s it – that billionaires lunch and dinner pictures you see from White House – those very few folks in that dining room – all they need to do is to collectively say STFU. But you know and I know they won’t.

It’s been exactly two months now since I left my cushy “safe-ish” job in my last company to come here and it’s been a hard two months of not just ramping up on a space that I don’t know much, but also dealing with effects of a terrible political environment, lack of trust in teams and overall morale which took a hit with layoffs that happened just a week into my tenure. Now within last two weeks a new situation has emerged which does not involve me but the effect of the outcome is going to mightily impact me, including one of the very reasons why I joined this company in first place! Of course hindsight is 20/20 and I nor others had any insight into these things, but last night I was like remind me again why I left my relatively stable job in a lousy economy to come here! It is true however that I have had the most amount of learning I could have had in the last 2 months that I didn’t for a year but gosh increasingly feeling itchy about choosing risk over safety of my job.

What a kaput of a day – nothing needed to close today. Even my gym that rarely ever closes shut down today coz of impending doom. Schools could have been all day. I get that we will have winds later tonight but even that prediction has gone weaker than it was supposed to be. In this age of AI and tech available the fact that meteorologists simply couldn’t figure this one out is quite remarkable. Like entire area shut down here today.

We get a lot of shitty weather but it’s not often that weather people sound alarms as they are about tomorrow – which begets the qn – why aren’t the schools closed for tomorrow? If schools can shut down for 2-3” inches of snow here well in advance, tomorrow’s weather sounds legit concerning enough to close.