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I am being very petty towards a colleague at work but i am done being nice. Several months ago I invited her to a day long offsite so I could explain the inner working of our product. Everyone attended except her and she cited some excuse as she didnt think it was useful for her. Then over last two months she has rejected all my overtures. Now it turns out she’s been tasked to write a document that surprise surprise…. touches every part of the product I work on and she needs to know as much as she can. I am being very petty now and refusing to help her with anything and just asking her to RTFM. I am like throw attitude at me, I throw at it back lady.

Work from deck weather today and most of the week! appreciate.

An exhausting weekend! Wife was out entire weekend for a girls-only trip which meant I was at home with doggo and kid. It was way more exhausting than I thought it would be just managing these two kids. On the other hand we all made it out alive and my wife didnt have to come home to me and the kid with daggers out so thats a big win already.

Mom would’ve turned only 65 today. Its wild to think its been 13 years since we’ve lost her, but the wounds are still feel fresh. On the other hand the living must go on and not let the burden of past weigh them down. Today we celebrate my wife’s birthday too. Mom and her shared the day for a few brief years that their lives crossed paths (less than 3!). And by a strange stroke of luck, it also is my FIL-MIL’s wedding anniversary too.

I don’t get bath and body works. Who the fuck wants to smell like strawberry pound cake or a beach coconut?! (These are actual “flavors” I am seeing in the store). What the fuck does a beach coconut smell like anyway?

Done with book 1 of __The three body problem__ . Wow what a spectacularly imagined story. I am excited to read the other two in the series now!

I generally don’t support capital punishment but wretched wretched humans like these have no business living in this world. These people absolutely deserve the death sentence. [Mom who left toddler at home for 10 days while on holiday pleads guilty to murder – National | Globalnews.ca](https://globalnews.ca/news/10312716/mom-vacation-toddler-dead-home-guilty-murder-kristel-candelario/)

I want to be angry about Alabama ruling. But I am laughing instead. Because you know what, you flying fucks in that state deserve everything coming your way. You want it differently, vote different. Classic leopards ate my face opinions coming out of Alabama. I am like duh.

I keep thinking back to March 2020 when things began to shut down in the country and I feel like I have no recollection of the first couple of months of the shut down. Its a complete blur. The only connection to those days are the photos. And then the photos make it feel like *oh we met so and so in June, oh wait her swim began in September, oh we are out doing so and so outside* and don’t convey the gravity of the situation in those days. I am glad I don’t remember much of that time, but I do feel like March 2020 feels like 10 years ago at this point.

We are having a “thunder” storm in February. In February. The earliest I imagine thunderstorms hitting us was around April. And oh, it also kind snow flaked this morning. Only in DC area can you go from bitter cold to snow to a thunderstorm to a beautiful 60 degree sunny day all in a matter of sunrise to sunset.